Easy Come, Easy Go

Like the cliché goes, with every cloud there is a silver lining. so should we always be an optamist when a problem arises? why cant we acknowledge it as a problem and see through that? do we really have to seek the alternative?

relationships are chilché too. we build it with such care & destroy it with our own doings. afterwards we want to see the sliver lining? "thank god it didnt work....what it could have might been?" i cant differenciate this one with regret. regret comes from ur wrong doing. so u must have done somehing wrong in that relationship to destroy it. u wasted ur time, u wasted ur mind & still u r looking for the good things out of it? yes, we all do that. we are all born optimist.

i myself want to see all the silver linings that i can see out of all the failed relationship i had or will have in the future. but shouldn't i regret? shouldn't i be a little pessimist about relationship by now?