Past, Present......Past!!!

Do we ever really get over the people in our past? Personally, I don't think so. Even if it ended wonderfully (which they never tend to do) and you're all blissfully happy for each moving on ..there is still something to be said about sharing your life with someone. Even if its for a brief time. That person shared a piece of you.They set up shop in your heart. Heard all the intimate details of your life and went through a part of your life with you. 7 days 1 mths or 1 years doesn't matter. It was a part of your life that will never come back again. You changed them and they changed you...forever (wow, that sounded pretty philosophic).

So when it all ends, how can we really believe that a person's influence in our lives is truly over. Yes, we go through all the usual breaking up rituals. Like crying at every stupid thing that reminds you of the times you shared together. Blaming yourself for the whole mess and wondering when you'll ever get over her. Those feelings pass and slowly you can get through one day..and then one month. Life goes on. But does the fact that you are no longer "together" with someone mean that they automatically are denoted to something less. Does all the time you've spent with them just get thrown away? Does my memory ever cross their minds or do they ever wonder what happened to me and my life? I'll probably never know the answers to those questions...You guys probably thinking I'm one delusionally naive . Maybe I am.

(I was contemplating this very topic earlier today when I received an sms from a girl I have crush on)